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Your budget is not too little - your expectations are too high!

  • nicolefaaij
  • Oct 26
  • 2 min read

Let me say this straight: your budget isn’t the problem. The problem is what you think that budget should buy you. And trust me — I get it. You’ve seen beautiful weddings online, everything looks effortless, and now you wonder why your quotes don’t match what you’ve pinned.


Bride in a luxus gown at a venue
Bride in a luxus gown at a venue

Here’s the truth: most of those picture-perfect weddings are highly curated, professionally styled, and cost a small fortune. But that doesn’t mean your day can’t be stunning. It just means you need to be smart, creative, and focused on what really matters.


1. Pick your priorities early. Decide what’s most important to you as a couple — is it the food, the music, the photos, or the venue? You can have amazing results if you focus your budget on two or three key areas and simplify the rest.


2. Be realistic about guest count. Every extra person adds to your catering, seating, stationery, and décor costs. A smaller wedding often feels more intimate and allows you to spend more per guest — which means better food, more thoughtful details, and less stress.


3. Trust your professionals. If you hire experienced vendors, listen to their advice. We know where to save and where not to. Sometimes couples spend hundreds on things no one notices — like expensive linens — while forgetting details that really affect the guest experience, like good lighting or nice entertainment.


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4. Simplify your design. Instead of filling the room with decor, focus on one or two statement pieces — a floral installation, a beautiful table setup, or personalized signage. Minimal doesn’t mean boring; it means intentional.


5. Stop comparing. Your wedding doesn’t need to look like anyone else’s. It should feel like you. The most memorable weddings are those that reflect the couple’s personality, not their Pinterest board.


So no, your budget isn’t too low. With thoughtful choices, realistic expectations, and a bit of flexibility, you can create a day that’s both beautiful and authentic.

Because in the end, guests won’t remember how much you spent — they’ll remember how it felt to celebrate love with you. It`s easy to get lost along the planning journey, so much to organize and to think about. So much decisions and choices to make. My advice: Stay close to yourself and never forget what it is really about: You and your partner celebrating the beginning of forever, with each other.




Love,

Nicki

 
 
 

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